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Jan 26

Smart is the New Sexy

Posted on Saturday, January 26, 2013 in Sexy Saturdays

Ms. Robin, Sex Goddess LogoA few weeks ago my Dad posted this image on my facebook page saying “teach this in your sex ed classes!” Sorry, syllabi for all classes have been created so Dad, this blogs for you…How smart do you have to be to be considered sexy? You don’t have to be Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory smart, but having some degree of intelligence is definitely sexy. In my first Sexy Saturdays article I told you there was little sexier than intelligence. I still stand by that statement, but I’d like to add that being sex savvy counts as a form of intelligence.

Smart is new sexy imageBeing sex savvy is not limited to knowing a bunch of positions. Hell, anyone can watch videos of teens dancing on YouTube and learn all the positions in the Kama Sutra and then some. Don’t believe me? Try it – I dare you. Anyway, young folks doing dance moves that would put strippers to shame is a topic for another blog…

Sex savvy is much more than just knowing positions, it involves having accurate sexual heath knowledge and being aware of how you are impacted by sexual experiences.  For example, it is not enough to simply know that you should use condoms during your sexual debut, if applicable. A sex savvy person would do some research and go into their debut knowing there may be pain and blood involved for the partner being penetrated vaginally or anally. Armed with this knowledge, the sex savvy individual would do further research to learn how to minimize this.  An even savvier person would talk to friends and professionals about the emotional impact of having sex, get on some sort of birth control method if there is a risk of unintended pregnancy, and talk to their partner about fears, concerns, and expectations of their debut together.

Beyond being sexually savvy about initial sexual debuts, folks should familiarize themselves with information about prevention of sexually transmissible infections (STIs)/HIV, and unintended pregnancy. While this may look different from person to person, for most it includes having regular check-ups on your genitals and reproductive parts, as well as STI testing.

Now for the good news: I can help you be the sexy sex savvy person you are meant to be by educating and informing you about various sexual health topics in multiple ways. If you are a student at UC Berkeley, you can meet with me for your general sexual health education. If you live in or close to San Ramon, you can take a semester long class with me. I’m a great instructor – check me out on If you’re anywhere else in the California Bay Area, I’m happy to come do one or more workshops for you. Need more on-going personal assistance on your road to sex savviness? I got you! And, not just because my Dad asked me to. Until next Saturday.

Keep It Safe and Sexy,

Robin, the Sex Goddess

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Jan 5

Sexy 2013 Style!

Posted on Saturday, January 5, 2013 in Sexy Saturdays

Ms. Robin, Sex Goddess LogoStart the year off sexy! Sure, but what does that mean? While sexiness is subjective, it is commonly thought of as something or someone that gets your sexual juices flowing. What you find sexy, your partner or friends may not find so sexy. Although most people have specific ideas about what counts as sexy, such as particular body types, many people find confidence, intelligence, and intrigue sexy. Here’s how you can be a sexier you in 2013 using confidence, intelligence, and intrigue.

Confidence – Sexiness is a state of mind that begins with having confidence. Being confident in general will help others sconfidence imageee you as a self-secure and sexy person. Confidence is often exuded in the way a person carries themselves, the way they talk, or in many other ways. I’ve been told that I have a super sexy “own the world” walk. (Well, until I had a baby anyway. Now my walk is more of a sultry waddle, but still sexy). People tend to be more confident with subjects they know well. No one knows more about you…have confidence in yourself and be the best you. Others will see your confidence as sexy so long as you don’t confuse it with cockiness.

Intelligence – There is little that I find sexier than intelligence and there are tons of people who agree. This does not mean that you have to be a rocket scientist or anything like that. Intelligence is not limited to academic smarts, but definitely includes it. In this sense, intelligence means being able to understand and apply basic concepts to everyday life while putting your personal swag on it. Having the ability to make love to someone’s mind is freaking hot! I’m just saying.

Intrigue – Leave them wanting more. There’s something sexy about not fully knowing what to expect. This can apply to clothes, personality, and so much more. A woman wearing a tight mini skirt and low-cut, cleavage baring top is showing nearly all she may have to offer. Whereas a woman in a nicely fitting dress with less skin showing is likely to draw more intrigue. People enjoy fantasy and mystery. Give it to them by making them wonder what it will take to get what you’ve got. Remember there is a difference between “slutty” and “sexy.”

My last words of wisdom on this topic is just because someone may find you sexy after doing what I’ve suggested in this article does not necessarily mean they want to have sex with you. It simply means that they find you sexually appealing. There’s nothing wrong with that! In 2013, get your sexy on for free by being confident, intelligent and more intriguing. If you’re sexy and you know it, there is no need to have others co-sign your sexiness.

XOXO — Sex Goddess


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