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Sex for One!?!

Posted on Saturday, March 2, 2013 in Sexy Saturdays

Ms. Robin, Sex Goddess LogoI woke up a little horny this morning. My partner and I don’t live together so it was up to me to relieve my horniness. Without hesitation, I masturbated until I had a small, yet, pleasurable orgasm. I would’ve tried for another, but as luck would have it, my daughter woke up.

Masturbation is solo sex with someone you love…well hopefully. It can be done alone, or in the presence of a partner making this sexy experience one that can be enjoyed by those who are sexually active with others and those who aren’t. For this reason and more, I love and encourage you to try masturbating.  I’m sure you’ll find that much like eating ruffles potato chips, you can’t masturbate just once. Some of you may be hesitant for religious or cultural reasons. The last thing I want to do is disrespect your beliefs, but seriously your palms won’t get hairy, nor will you go blind, or any other ridiculous myth you may have heard. I’m almost certain you won’t make yourself insensitive to other types of sexual stimulation.

What will likely happen is that you may notice that one motion feels better on parts of your body than others. For example, you may find that circular motions around your clitoris or head of your penis feel REALLY good. You may also learn that applying more or less pressure intensifies your pleasure.  You may discover that light vibration on your scrotum or perineum is just the extra “umph” you need to take you over the orgasmic edge. This knowledge can help you have more pleasurable solo and partnered sex experiences. That’s hot!

What’s even hotter is whatever you do to experience pleasure through masturbation is right. There is no wrong way to masturbate. masturbating Many people use only their fingers and hands. In doing so, some people insert their fingers in their vagina or anuses.  Others stick to external stimulation such as rubbing the vulva, or scrotum, or maybe grasping the penis. Some folks choose to use sex toys and/other aids to enhance their masturbatory experience. Still others may find something to hump or grind.

Here is my suggestion for your masturbatory debut: pick a time when you know you’re not going to be interrupted, light a candle and play some sexy music to set the mood for self seduction. Remove your clothes to get more comfortable. Gently lay yourself down and caress your body. Slowly make your way to your genitals. You may want to add lubrication at this point. As you touch yourself, make mental note of how your body responds to the various types of stimulation. Fantasizing while masturbating may help you orgasm faster, but is not required. Masturbation can be a pleasurable experience for people of all genders and orientations so long as you are able to stimulate your genitals. Happy masturbating!

Until next Saturday: Keep it Safe and Sexy,

Robin, the Sex Goddess

Have a topic or question you’d like me to address in a future Sexy Saturdays article? Send it to me at RMills@sexucation.org.

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